Have self-confidence. Be punctual, it shows you are earnest about it.
Life is relationships.
Try to enrich every relationship with love. Don’t put reciprocity, expectations in place.
Seek love which is God. Seek freedom (psychological freedom from expectations, from seeking advantage) so you can discover that love.
Love is unity in diversity. If diversity is real, there is no love.
In non-duality the truth is one but appears as many. Differences but not divisions. We are all one in essence but different in appearance.
You are able to overlook the outward differences because you focus on the inner source which is the same in all living beings.
In dualistic ethics there is no scope for forgiveness. How can you forgive real evil? Rama, Krishna, Buddha, Christ were teaching non-dualistic ethics, forgiving your enemies.